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What is the Window of Tolerance?
The window of tolerance is a way to understand what happens in your mind, body, emotions and behaviours.
Aug 22 min read
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Let's Normalize Fidget Toys for Adults
It is a really normal thing for people to feel some level of stress or anxiety in a day and our bodies then need to release that energy.
Jul 53 min read
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I'm Afraid to Start Counselling: Overcoming Fear
Counselling can seem like a scary thing to do for so many reasons. It is hard to start something new. Here are some things which might help.
Feb 152 min read
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O Come All You Unfaithful
An over-sparkly Christmas experience can miss those in pain. Yet it is in the dark, empty, smelly places that God is often working unseen.
Dec 7, 20242 min read
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One of My Favourite Ways to Calm: Be still and know
One of my favourite ways to help calm my own mind and body is through a breathing exercise which incorporates Psalm 46:10.
Nov 30, 20242 min read
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Overwhelmed? It's time to HALT
If you find yourself overwhelmed with stress, feeling it's difficult to make decisions or easily getting into conflict with others: H.A.L.T.
Nov 16, 20242 min read
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You Are Enough
Being enough means not being perfect. It means being approachable, being broken, being a seeker of renewed relationships, and ...
Oct 26, 20242 min read
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Counselling Is Brave Work
It takes incredible courage to do the kind of deep-heart work that people do in counselling.
Oct 12, 20241 min read
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Learning emotions through children's books
For those who didn't learn how to notice, identify, and regulate emotions as a child, children's books on emotions are so helpful.
Aug 24, 20242 min read
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Messy people
I often hear people say that they feel "messy" or "not good enough" to be in relationship with others.
Aug 10, 20242 min read
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Average is Underrated
Noticing average things as being okay means noticing that certain things are actually predictable in a way that isn't harmful.
Jul 20, 20242 min read
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Dark Clouds, Deep Mercy - Lament
Sometimes we feel that the urging in the bible to "not be afraid" feels like a condemnation of fear and anxiety.
Jul 6, 20242 min read
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