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What is the Window of Tolerance?
The window of tolerance is a way to understand what happens in your mind, body, emotions and behaviours.
Aug 22 min read
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Let's Normalize Fidget Toys for Adults
It is a really normal thing for people to feel some level of stress or anxiety in a day and our bodies then need to release that energy.
Jul 53 min read
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I'm Afraid to Start Counselling: Overcoming Fear
Counselling can seem like a scary thing to do for so many reasons. It is hard to start something new. Here are some things which might help.
Feb 152 min read
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You Are Enough
Being enough means not being perfect. It means being approachable, being broken, being a seeker of renewed relationships, and ...
Oct 26, 20242 min read
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Counselling Is Brave Work
It takes incredible courage to do the kind of deep-heart work that people do in counselling.
Oct 12, 20241 min read
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Messy people
I often hear people say that they feel "messy" or "not good enough" to be in relationship with others.
Aug 10, 20242 min read
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More About EMDR
If you're considering trying EMDR, you might be interested in what others have to say about it as an approach.
Jun 28, 20241 min read
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It's okay to not be okay . . .
It's okay to not be okay . . . but it's not okay to stay that way. We all have times in life where we are struggling more than normal.
Jun 8, 20242 min read
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What is Trauma?
One approach to defining trauma uses 3 E's: Event, Experience, Effect
May 18, 20242 min read
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How to get the most out of counselling
So you’re about to start counselling. Well done on having the courage to start. As you get started, let's think about what might make...
May 11, 20242 min read
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How is counselling different from just talking to a friend?
For some people, friends and family are great sources of support and are a great option for receiving the care they need in everyday...
May 4, 20242 min read
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What is EMDR?
What if someone told you that you don’t have to speak about the details of your trauma to heal? My own experience of EMDR was...
May 2, 20242 min read
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Will counselling help me?
This past week, I was asked by a friend, with tears in her eyes, "will counselling help me?" She was so desperate to be in a better place...
Apr 27, 20241 min read
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My First Experience In Counselling Was Terrible
I remember the day I decided I needed help again. I sat in my car, palms sweating, so scared to call the counsellor that I had found....
Apr 6, 20242 min read
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The Best Recipe for Recovery
I spoke at the Sheffield Hallam CU event recently and was asked a great question: What is the best recipe for mental health recovery? I...
Mar 30, 20243 min read
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What can counselling help?
With all of the pop-psychology and self-help material on the Internet these days, it sometimes seems overwhelming. Do I need...
Mar 16, 20241 min read
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For those Suspicious of Christian Counselling
Perhaps the idea of Christian counselling rings alarm bells for you. Perhaps you're concerned about judgement, hatred of your identity group, or being evangelized to in a counselling session. Let's start off by saying that if you feel judged, hated, or pressurized in counselling of any kind - that is unethical.
Mar 9, 20242 min read
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What can I expect from counselling?
I remember my first ever counselling session. It had taken me so much effort to just arrange the time to meet - and here I was now...
Mar 8, 20241 min read
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